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Hello all. Some of you are new people! Settle in, new people, make yourselves at home!

I knew in theory that the post about the Weekender might get more attention than I was used to. But I didn’t know it would and the reality of a thing is always pretty different from the expectation anyway.

As it was -- Baby’s first internet kerfuffle!

Some of you have left great comments on the original post that are various flavours of wise/thoughtful/supportive/wanting to know more.

I want to thank you for them. I would normally go through and reply to all of them and I just want to ask you to forgive me for the fact that this time, I’m not going to.

The fact is,I’m tired, I’m behind on work, I have a stinker of a cold that’s also making me throw up for some reason, and I’m still trying to bounce back from various fun things like a death in the family that did a number on my brain over Christmas. I went through a long, and I think, ultimately productive twitter and email exchange with an SFX team member before Dave Bradley stepped in, and now I don’t feel I can afford to outlay any more energy on this. Of course, no one needs my permission to keep talking about this wherever you like.  But I don’t think I’m going to be part of the discussion any more. Not, at least, until we’re getting closer to the next Weekender.   I said what I wanted to say, it did get listened to, and now I’d really like to get on with this book I’m supposed to be writing.

(And to stop throwing up).

Oh – one more thing I am going to do, and urge you to do, is to write to Chic Festivals about the dancer situation. info@chicfestivals.com and lisa@chictalent.com are the email addresses Lizzie Barrett of the British Fantasy Society has been using. As I understand it, Chic Festivals work with, rather than for, SFX – I guess as partners? – in making the event happen. So they’re not being paid by SFX, and they send those half-naked stiltwalking girls to all their events. I’m told that SFX has raised concerns about them before, and Chic Festivals hasn’t listened.  I’m not saying this lets SFX off the hook – the event bears their name, after all – but still, these are the people who think silent half-naked women and no silent, half-naked men at SFX Weekender is  good idea, and going directly to the source of the problematic entertainment may be a useful next step.

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[info]desperance wrote:
Feb. 9th, 2012 03:50 pm (UTC)
*settles in*

[Hi: it was Tricia Sullivan sent me over here, I think, if you were curious. I'm probably not the only one; when Tricia speaks, we listen.]
[info]sophiamcdougall wrote:
Mar. 2nd, 2012 11:39 am (UTC)
Nice to meet you! I have recovered the power of communication now.
[info]la_marquise_de_ wrote:
Feb. 9th, 2012 03:53 pm (UTC)
Thank you for taking time to write so thoughtfully about it all.
[info]sophiamcdougall wrote:
Mar. 2nd, 2012 11:47 am (UTC)
Thanks for the support.
[info]Richard Lyle wrote:
Feb. 9th, 2012 04:08 pm (UTC)
I'd offer to practice my stilt-walking but Anne would probably think it undignified and my balance is poor anyway.

Get well soon.
[info]sophiamcdougall wrote:
Mar. 2nd, 2012 11:47 am (UTC)
Maybe a nice pair of PVC trousers?
[info]owlfish wrote:
Feb. 9th, 2012 04:47 pm (UTC)
Tricia Sullivan is how I found you this week too.
[info]sophiamcdougall wrote:
Mar. 2nd, 2012 11:53 am (UTC)
Nice to meet you!
[info]triciasullivan wrote:
Feb. 9th, 2012 05:25 pm (UTC)
Awk! I did mention you were here. They are all lovely people.

Seriously, internet kerfuffles can be quite awful. I'm so sorry for all the stress and then to be ill on top of it...ugh. Hope you get well soon, and I think you are wise to step back and regroup. Thank you for stepping up on this one and speaking. For myself, I really appreciate it and I know it's not easy.

Writing is definitely more important than all of this! All best wishes.
[info]sophiamcdougall wrote:
Mar. 2nd, 2012 11:37 am (UTC)
Lovely to meet you! Sorry for being so slow to say so, really did have to go DEEP into the introversion cave for a while. Really, as internet kerfuffles go, it was tiny and benign, and I eventually surfaced and thought "Hey, no one actually seems to hate my guts!" but still, when you're sending off long, long emails wondering Oh God What Is Going to Happen Next... oof.

Hope to see you at Eastercon!
[info]saare_snowqueen wrote:
Feb. 9th, 2012 06:50 pm (UTC)
I think you are very brave and now deserve a breather.

There is something truly awful going around. Half my students are out sick and those that are still coming to class look like they are about to pass out. Please take care of yourself. You've done your part and got the dialogue going - Now get some rest.
[info]sophiamcdougall wrote:
Mar. 2nd, 2012 11:37 am (UTC)
Thank you, and it's nice to meet you. /very slow reply
[info]saare_snowqueen wrote:
Mar. 2nd, 2012 04:01 pm (UTC)
Don't apologise - I've hard a very bad technical (keyboard died) week and I am hopelessly behind.

If I succeed in amusing you, how do you feel about shipping a coy of Savage City to Estonia? As well as photographing it in unusual locations, I review books for Innsmouth Free Press and Future Fire E-zine and could probably get one of them to take a review. BUT! don't decide - yet! I have a cunning plan which I'm going to work on this weekend.
[info]sophiamcdougall wrote:
Mar. 3rd, 2012 10:08 pm (UTC)
I will ship the book anywhere in the spirit of sportsmanship and rewarding creativity!
[info]kateelliott wrote:
Feb. 9th, 2012 07:01 pm (UTC)
Like others (above), I'm here because of Trish. It's all her fault. Thanks for the comments on SFX Weekender -- thoughtful and measured.
[info]sophiamcdougall wrote:
Mar. 2nd, 2012 11:53 am (UTC)
Thank you for the support and nice to meet you.
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